Maybe if he’d have Beagle Funny T-shirt before to his partner? She clearly doesn’t know who she is and relationships should be transparent if there’s nothing to hide? I get she shouldn’t check his phone but he is texting another girl whilst spending time with his girl. It’s not very respectful. Then again, he may have started talking to this coworker that day to discuss a project or something and that’s why she is new. I completely agree that a relationship should be transparent but we are assuming and implying different things from the shirt that isn’t really necessary. When you tell him how his  hurts your feelings, it’s not belittling him or criticizing him, it’s loving Beagle Funny Tshirt, and making things the way they can work out for you, not just for him. Sounds to me like he is an emotionally abusive man. He says I belittle him. He can’t do anything right I always have a complaint. I just don’t know anymore. Maybe I am. I just don’t know. Forgiving seems easy but the pain never leaves you, especially if your faithful and kind.